![]() Looking back, both had a degree of shame associated with them. One was a literal one night stand and the other was a one night stand… that turned into a relationship… that lasted over a year. So far in my life, I’ve had two one night stands. Which is fine, but I think that this kind of black-and-white analysis contaminates our perception of one night stands in a way that doesn’t serve anyone or anything – other than perpetuating ignorant stereotypes and assumptions. ![]() And because of all the contradictory elements, there’s a lot of information out there that just focuses on one end or the other. Think about it – the WALK OF SHAME is most often described as what follows a one night stand. They are either depicted as these exciting, intense, passionate encounters (that are romanticized in movies, books, and on television) or, they’re viewed as desperate and slutty. I think one night stands are very confusing, unnecessarily judged, and extremely contradictory. I want to provide for you, everything that I wish was said to me about one night stands. The purpose of this post is not to bring out the moral or judgemental police, nor is it about wanting to ignite a conversation that further dilutes something I personally think we can do a lot better at understanding (and not judging). I have respect for everyone’s beliefs, morals, values, and all religions. Some people have just had one, some have had a few, some do it often, some haven’t had a one night stand – yet, and others would never have one at all. It almost seemed fitting to make out with them and be part of a fantasy world.One night stands are obviously something very personal – it’s a personal choice based on your personal values and beliefs. They were guys who were light, bantery and just plain old fun! Ones who pulled me into a world of excitment and enjoyment. ![]() They weren't guys who asked me about my job or my family during our meeting. These were guys I met while I was out and there was an instant, fun and exciting connection. Why? Because it was fun, exciting, went with the night and felt really, really good!!!! I have however had multiple one night fool arounds and loved every second of it! I was coming off a broken heart, insecure and wanted to just DO IT cause I thought it would shake my sad feelings. The one time I had a one night stand, it was pre meditated. This was interesting to me, cause what I think I discovered from my questioning was that most one night stands for women are PRE MEDITATED!!! Or at least women like to think so. I mean I must have talked to at least 200 women about this and each said something along the lines of I decided. Out of all the women, maybe 2 had never had a one night stand BUT said they had considered it and attempted it a few times.įrom the other women, each of them used the words “I decided…” when describing their one night stands. Girlfriends, sisters, mother, Wing Girls, on facebook, through twitter… Every female I could find and I pretty much got the same responses from all. I didn't realize this was such a hot topic!Īs always, I dug deep and asked every single one of the women in my network about their thoughts on a One Night Stand. ![]() I got a ton of emails both from my newsletter members and from blog readers like you- wanting to know more! (**To listen to me and my friend Amy discuss when women want a One Night Stand go to the bottom of this entry!)Ī few weeks back I posted a blog about when women want a One Night Stand.
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